My name is Stacey, this is a blog where I will update people with my life and such, post pictures of things that interest me, and re-post things I like.
i feel old and lazy. i work so much. yaddddeeee-yadddda. i just want to rant for a minute.
things are going great-chris and i, i love him so much. i love how much he loves me and cares for me too.
things other then him-i feel so drained. maybe my age is catching up. I can’t be the forever young girl i usually am. always ready and willing to run out the door to do something. I have noticed how i actually wake up early even tho i’m not a morning person, how i go to bed at a decent hour. a year ago at this time was my going out night, tuesdays with zia or steph at botega, 1/2 price wine. i drink two beers at the house now and i’m about to pass out. i took a 3 hour nap today. my usual working out at 10pm has started to stop just because i’m exhausted at that point in the day. I need to figure out a new workout schedule. i am not going to wake up at 5am. i tried it, nope. so now its gonna prob be right after work again. only other thing that sucks is that by that time, everyone and their mom is getting off work, and planet fitness is like a mad house, packed like a club.\
i would like to join a diff gym, but all the other gyms hours are weird. planet fitness it the only 24 hour one……hmm
Life has never been so amazing.
Chris did indeed quit his job, and move here for me. We lived together at my old place for about a month, and then got a house. We got a smaller 3 bedroom and of corse Jimmy lives with us our roommate/one of my old roommates.
So far the things I have been thankful for have gone far and beyond and just suprised me. You really do have to be thankful for who and what you have to achieve what you want with happiness. I have so far this year achieved my weightloss goal losing ALMOST 50 pounds, bought a new car, got a great job new doing what I love, and get better at everyday, making great money, have a loving boyfriend who loves me more then anything :-) a wonderful family who cares and reminds me everyday how much they love me, and my close friends, who are always there for me.
Chris is working night shift right now, but soon to be promoted already to day shift. I don’t like its but its actually not bad. I wake up early so He gets home about 6 or 7am when I am waking up. We get to hang out before I head to work, and then when I get off work around 6, he is waking up to get ready for work shortly after. So we get to hang out again. It has taught me alot, me being grumpy in the morning when I wake up, and him being grumpy when he wakes up, and us being on different sleep schedules, we have been able to learn more about each other with out our random grumpiness hurting the other. Usually I am grumpy but only when I wake up late and and running late for work, but chris wakes me up and its always great waking up to his smile. He’s just gottan off work, and in a great mood because he’s off work, so I wake up instantly ready to smile. Coffee is great in the morning while he cracks open his “evening” beer before he heads to bed.
Its funny i drink coffee while he’s got a beer in hand, and then its reversed when he wakes up when I get off work.
Life is gooood. I am very thankful for my wonderful family, my loving handsome man, my great job and the money I make, my new car WITH ac, and of corse the friends that get me by. #thankful
I AM SUPER DUPER EXCITED! I feel like a child.
Chris’ last day at work is tom. He will them be coming to wilmington, and staying :-)
SO, Chris and I have been planning on moving to the same town for a while now, as we have been dating long distance. We see each other alot, Alot more then you would think. Between three to 5 days a week, give or take our work interupting that hang out time. He has come here everyweekend except two for the past 8 months. I go there when I can, which even turns into just for one night since he isn’t THAT far. anyway, He is moving in with jimmy, rob, and I until our lease ends and we move. Also I feel so blessed to have found a guy who is exactly like me. Maybe not exactly the same, but he is also the only guy I have ever dated who is the fucking shit.
and by that, i mean, he’s a fucking southern gentleman. He opens the car door for me 98% of the time, who the fuck does that?! He is the only guy that complements me in a non creepy way. I have never really dated someone that told me i was beautiful all the time or something along the lines of that, but you know back when-when guys would try to holla and would tell you that shit you though it was creepy, and stopped talking to him. WELL he tells me shit like that 24/7 and it is not creepy. if that makes sense. I almost feel like maybe we shoulda dated back in the day. He wanted to date me along time ago, I was caught up on an ex way back when, so I told him no. I luckily ran into him while visiting in Fayetteville in November last year. We have been inseperable since.
I love his family. ALOT. Him and his brother are best friends just like me and my sister. His mom is awesome. Any mom that passes you a bottle of fireball on a sunday funday is a keeper. My parents love him, my dad most of all loves him because his job(not money he makes)-also old job) he’s a handy man, manages a wearhouse. Him and my dad are going to rebuild the trim in my parents house, and my dad is excited about it. I love that my dad likes him because my dad is always at work and never really has time to meet all the guys i’ve ever dated.
so basically. Chris found a job here, his last day is tom at his old job, and is moving here tom! :-) I am so excited for my future with the one guy who actually makes me feel like I am in a great relationship. We are on the same page about everything, and I couldn’t be more happy. and a guy who talks about a future with you first is a keeper, because you know its what they want, especially when they talk about it often :-)
No one ever reads these anymore. I never get on here anymore either. I guess this will be my life update/rant.
I have lost 46 pounds total and kept it off. going back in forth like 3 pounds but thats normal. I completed my first new years resolution, which was to work out all last year and i did it. I am still doing it now, but just not as intense. its fucking hot outside so i’m deff not out running everyday but i’m keeping up.
I’m at a point where I don’t know what to do with work.
I am making baller money, way baller then I thought, and now that I have regulars and stuff, it just keeps getting better. but i hate working 46 HOURS A WEEK. i want to walk out sometimes. This is not just like some hair salon job where u just do hair; you are timed, on your haircuts, your in between client time, and if u don’t meet standards you get in trouble. its like slave labor. yea i make awesome money, but i’m cutting like 26 ppl’s hair a day.
I don’t understant some people. you don’t go out to eat and give a one dollar tip, yet you trust me with your hair, and give me nothing, or a dollar. i guess i shouldn’t complain to much. I never even have time to go pee we are so busy. Like I feel bad going to go pee, I don’t know, even after all these months of working there, it is still just so over whelming. People get pissed at you if you walk to the back for any reason, they mean mug the shit out of you, and then when u bring them back for there cut, they bring it up. “oh 2 min ago you walked to the back, and were gone, where did you go” and i’m all “i had to get more clean combs” and they were like “oh you were gone like 10 min” and in real time it was like 20 seconds. then they don’t tip because they make it seem like you are not aloud to leave your chair.
oh man. do I want this great money and slave labor, or do i need to take a step back.
also, september is getting closer, closer to Chris moving in with me here in wilmington. :-)
im buying a used car. a 2001 green 4 door honda accord ex.
im bout to be brizzzoke.